My Best Friend

My best friend happens to be my husband. I can not vaunt about this man enough.  I can confidently say that I love this man more today, then I did when I said "I do". I met Jake during a difficult time in my life, and he was exactly what I needed. When had a fantastic courtship, and an engagement that helped us test the waters. Followed by the perfect wedding day; we bought a house, a couple of cars, and now have two beautiful daughters. During all this time, he stayed my best friend.


In some ways he seems to be my opposite, he is calm, and I'm hyper. He goes through out his day with a purpose, and I am more erratic. He was able to keep me level headed during our time together. He is the backbone to my support system. He is thoughtful, understanding and kind. 

Watching Jake take the role of a "dad" has been remarkable. He is so patience, and loving with our girls. He has stepped out of his comfort zone to raise them, and he has become an expert at changing diapers. He reads to them, snuggles them, and my favorite moments are when we talks to them, the girls love to watch him. 


Jake was hand picked for me; he is my prince charming. I  know I am one lucky lady to have him a part of my life, and my daughters are the luckiest girls in the world to have him as their daddy. With him as my partner in crime, I can take on anything. 

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