The Milsteds

When you become a mother a million things change. You adjusting to taking care of a tiny, helpless human being. You are trying to configure a schedule and rhythm that works for your family. As I was trying to figure motherhood, I found that I was neglecting myself. How am I suppose to do the best for my children, if I am not doing the best for myself? I knew the moment I found out I was pregnant, my priorities changed. The blurry little blobs on my sonogram would forever be on the top of my list. I would need to take care of myself for the next several months. When my girls made their entrance, I was relying on my body to feed them, it was again one of my top priorities. As the days became weeks. I lost myself, I was learning who I was as a mother, but I struggled to recognize myself. I am trying to take advantage of naps and bedtime to make sure I am taking care of myself. I try to make sure I take that time to work out, paint my nails, or write. At least once a week I work to h

Left to right: Alexis and Olivia at 24 days old.  Here is a list of 5 things that I use to handle motherhood. Learn to be patience. It takes an incredible amount of patience to raise tiny little human  beings. I wished I was able to practice my patience more before my twins arrived. Take the help . If someone offers to cook a meal or do a chore for you, let them. It makes your life a little bit more manageable. Have a routine. Whether it is baby led, or a routine you build around your schedule, you need one. It will help keep you level headed.  Have a hobby. This may sound like an odd, but it's crucial for you to find a way to relieve the stress. So, find a hobby, crafting, baking, games or working out.  Communication. Make sure you and your partner are on the same page. Speak up if you need help, and be aware of your partners needs. There have been times when I have asked my husband to take over. We are a team, and working together helps everyth

The diaper bag is essential. However, knowing what to pack in your diaper bag can be a challenge. It took me a couple of trips to figure our what i really needed for my twins. I also decided to stop carrying a purse when I am out with the girls, so I to make sure I had room for mommy essentials. With twins I will be carrying double the amount, but thankfully I found an adorable, and roomy diaper bag. Let's first start with my bag. It's the Oh Joy! Tote diaper bag. I ordered it off target.com (my favorite place.) I found that it fits everything. I can carry it on my shoulder or or as a cross body, this comes in handy when I am running errands alone. Diaper Bag items: Diapers-I usually carry around 6-8 diapers with me. Diaper cream-We use good ole Desitin. Wipes-Pampers or Huggies. 4 sets of clothes-2 extra outfits for each baby. If I know we will be gone for 6+ hours I'll pack each girl and additional outfit.  Socks!-Each girl has a pair of socks. Plastic Bag-th

My hospital stay and delivery, were slightly unique. My water ruptured at 34 weeks, I was admitted to one hospital and then transferred. Once I was transferred I labored for 36 hours before it all ended in an unplanned c-section. Here is a list of 5 things I think every mommy or mommy-to-be should have with them during their stay. Sugar free gum. This was wonderful, I wasn't able to leave my bed once they put my epidural in, so having the gum to help me stay fresh was so nice.  Make up wipes. This would have been a life saver. I went into labor with a full face of make up, (that wasn't planned) after awhile it was making my eyes water. The wipes would have made it a breeze to clean my face. Chapstick. Trust me, this is a MUST. Extension cord. This was incredibly helpful. All the hospital plugs are not in convenient places. Having the extension cord helped me be able to keep my phone charged and, close by. Pen and notepad.  This was great to have to take dow